Finding a close friends, and stick too them, is never my cup of tea. For me, friends is necessary, but it is not compulsory. But still, sometimes I felt IT IS compulsory.
When I was a child, I’ve got a close friend. Well, I think so. But being the son of parent who was a teacher, you can’t help when your parent transfered to somewhere else.
My finding of close friends has ended ages ago. At the moment, I hesitated to be damn close to a person, because I’m afraid that I’ll separated from them. Either they were gone/moving somewhere else, or I’m the one who moved. It is really depressing you know?
However, above all odds, I agree that friendship ties should be kept as tight as it can. Human is interesting, as some people said. There are 1001 reason a simple things can happen and by itself, can cause 1001 outcome.
The key for a good relation is always tolerance, and discussion. Sometime things can go bad, as you don’t like this people action, or your feeling hurt might hurt.
But sometimes, you just can’t help yourself feeling annoyed by others. So what to do? Boycotting them? Argue with them? Running away from them?
A fight will never end. Instead, become worst. So, peace is the only way of solving problems. The best part, you can back stabbed them without them expecting. Opps, no, I’m not responsible for giving you the idea.
Ego can be really annoying. By ego, a fighting friends won’t solved, a quarrellings couple won’t end and war will not subsided.
So guys, make friends, play safe. Ego is required only in minute amount.
p/s: the hell for those people, who give a hint about an issues, but in the end, hesitated to continue the story. I better off not knowing it at all
Filed under: Opinion and Musings
i’ve practic ur idea. memang rase cm jahat sgt la plak. tp when i can’t help myself feeling annoyed by others, lg lame pendam, lg buat sakit ati je. the most important in relationship i think is trustworthy. its very hurt when u betrayed by ur close friend..
which idea? yg backstab tu ke? entahla… kadang rase cm mengumpat ni salah satu cara utk meluahkan perasaan. nak kasi release tensen. tapi tu la… side effect die dosa…
yup, trustworthy also important. by kepercayaan, semua bende jadi senang. suami tak yah risau isteri curang, kawan tak yah risau rahsia terbongkat dsbgnya…
betrayal is painful. as for me, kalau dh org betrayed… memula bengang gak… tapi lame2 just ignore je la… sebab walau apa pun terjadi/orang kata, as long as i can live, i have people who love me, that’s fine.
pastu nanti ngumpat dalam hati… atau cari partner lain join umpat. atau kalau berani/sampai hati, serang orang tu… hahahaha..
Salam aidilfitri!!
smoga raya tahun nie meriah di samping rakan-taulan di bumi alexandria
im agreed with you.as for me never had any best frens tht can stick with me until now.end up how close they’re with me they will just come and go.at last sowang2 gak…huhuhuhuhu
so sad… so sad.. it’s a sad sad situation…
IMHO, better to have thousand of ‘ordinary’ friend rather than have 3 or 4 close friend.
Actually this article is focused on friendship relation, and the importance of keeping the bond. Isn’t somewhat a big loss, if a friendship bond shattered because of a mere woman?
About having thousand of ‘ordinary’ friend rather than have 3 or 4 close friend, that’s another issue.. I agree for having lots of friends though, cause it means lots of contact/cable/source/whatever you called them